The crusade against porn is about a lot more than pornography. — Note: I originally wrote this to explain what was happening when OnlyFans announced its ban. It has since reversed its decision, but the larger crusade against pornography — which is actually a crusade against bodily autonomy — remains an important issue to know about. …

A collection of links with tiny summaries. — I thought I’d keep a running list of my erotica that can be found in other Medium publications. I’ll add to this as they appear. (I’m a slow writer so there aren’t very many.) An unrepentant cocktease is intent on seducing an older man. …

Because of banks and payment processors, we’re moving in a repressive direction. That worries me. — A little over a decade ago, I wanted to build an online magazine dedicated to sex. It would feature erotic photography, articles on sex in art, thoughtful interviews with sex workers, and personal essays. …

I was engaged to his son, but he’s the one I’ve always wanted. — The vacation cabin is much larger than I expected. The way Colin described it, I pictured a shack deep in the woods with no heat or running water, but it’s actually really nice. Vaulted ceilings. Modern kitchen. Big windows with views of the surrounding woods. I can work with this. …

It has a feature that requires explanation. — It’s rare to find an antique dildo. They tend to be destroyed or kept hidden, like the Nantucket dildo owned by a whaler’s wife that was found inside an old chimney. Or the impressive Irish dildo found in a drawer. The dildo I want to talk about was hidden in…

There are ways to have better sex and they are entirely within your control. — I’m supposed to be writing fiction right now, but I got distracted by this sex diary entry in New York Magazine: The Brooklyn Mom Who Was Disappointed by Her First Secret Date. Sex Diary is a regular column in which someone anonymously chronicles their sex life for a week, and…

He said he wanted to watch me have sex with other men, but he was hiding a secret. And an alter-ego. — I usually write fiction here on Medium so I want to preface this by saying that this story is true. Which isn’t to say fiction isn’t true — it very much is, or can be — but the events in this particular story, as strange as they are, happened. …

A few thoughts and a few links. — Someone recently asked me how I write erotica. Thinking he was talking about story mechanics, I launched into a whole breakdown of how I bend dramatic structure to frame a sex scene, but it turned out that wasn’t his question. He wanted to know about my process. And it reminded…

He sets the rules, I break them, and he delivers the punishment I crave. But this time, he’s going to give me more than just a hard spanking. — “We have to be quiet,” I murmur, fumbling through my purse for my keys. Some guy I just met is groping my breasts from behind because it’s Friday night and Friday nights are when I get laid. But before that can happen, I need to get past my roommate. Adam.